A space for open conversations about life, death and dying.
The Queer Death Cafe runs as regularly as possible, on the last Sunday of the month.
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What is a Queer Death Cafe?
A queer death cafe is a space for the lgbtqi+ community to come together and talk about death and dying.
There are lots of reasons we tend to avoid the topic of death, but since it’s something we’ll all experience, having a safe space to explore our thoughts, feelings and experiences about this subject can feel empowering, calming and refreshing.
What happens at a Death Cafe?
The format is very free-flowing. We will begin with introductions and from there, the conversation can go in different directions. There is no set agenda and topics might range from clinical perspective on end-of-life and medicine, to philosophical reflections on what happens when we die, to personal stories of grief or illness.
Everyone is welcome to speak but there’s no pressure – share if you feel comfortable. Everything that we discuss is confidential so, what you say during a meeting will stay there.
Is it like therapy?
No, this isn’t a therapy session.
If you’re specifically looking for bereavement support, this might not be the right space for you right now.
Do I have to be bereaved or grieving?
Not at all. this group is open to anyone regardless of your personal experience with death.
The most important thing is to come with an open mind, be empathetic and sensitive to others around you.
How is this event inclusive?
We take care in finding venues that are as accessible as possible. If you have a specific access need, you’re encouraged to let us know so we can work towards accommodating them.